unfortunately this experience host/guest has not been one of the most successful, so that even, in my review, I cannot reccomend you to the other hosts.
Here below my comments to your notes.
1a)in the advertisment it's clearly specified that it's a PORTION OF A VILLA and not a WHOLE VILLA. Furthermore, it's FALSE that the host's family lives there and that I check my guests during their stay. First of all, the 2 portions of the house are completely separated from a gate and the family who lives in the other portion (my sister's family) cannot absolutely see from their property when the guests are in the house or in the garden, so it's impossible that they could check my guests. Anyway, also my sister has 2 flats on Airbnb and she perfectly knows how important is to respect the guest's privacy, a concept that does not belong to you considering that during your stay you opened my sister's gate and you entered in her private property. In Italy this is a crime!
1b)It's absolutely FALSE that there are neighbors who check how you "manage" the trash and talk to me about this, as nobody, excepting my sister (who was in Sicily in that period), lives in the same property. So, I could not understand who could be so interested to enter in my property only to check your trash.
There is only a gardener who, twice a week, comes to throw away the full bags and prepares new bags. Probably he was checking if there was something to separate, but i can assure you that he never talks with us about this. I can assure you that we are not so interested in your trash.
2) It's absolutely FALSE that there is a road (used by my sister's family) going through the pool area. You are right that a garden drive way is located in my garden for its whole lenght but it's located on one side of the garden and along this drive way there are a small wall, some trees and plants to separate it from the rest of the garden. Furthermore, considering that the pool is on the other side of the garden, it's quite difficult for me to understand how the drive way could pass through the pool area.
3) About the electricity, i explained You how to use the electrical items in the house (not all at once) considering that there is a pool motor that works around the clock to ensure to guests a clean and hygienic pool.
As during my explanation i saw, when i was back, that you was laughing with your girlfriend, probably my explanation was not so clear for you, because you were laughing rather than listening to me.
Furthermore, when you had a problem with the electricity during the night (twice for only 5 minutes), i explained you that it was due to the electrical company and that it was not a problem of the house.
Probably you didn't correctly understand what i was explaining You as also in this situation (in the middle of the night while I was trying to help You) you was laughing again with Your girlfriend (what a happy couple!!!).
4) All pictures published on airbnb are really taken from the property, also the photos with the view of the valley, it's not a lie!!!
Probably you didn't see it as you thought to see the landscape from another side of the garden (perhaps from my sister's garden).
5) About the grass and the garden, at the check in i explained you that in Tuscany we have, from the beginning of May, a big drought problem and the public authority has prohibited the wastage of water. Despite the situation, not due on me, I apologized with you for the inconvenience.
Probably you didn't understand, as I was explaining this while you were laughing behing my back.
I hope to have well explained all Your doubts and I hope this can be useful for Your next trip in Amsterdam.