I have to say I’m shocked to see your comment as that doesn’t make sense to me whatsoever. Your original reservation was for 4 guests, then it changed to 5 guests, which was fine but then when you checked in without me there you brought 11 guests, of which were many children and your dog which was not agreed upon. When I asked you what happened you said “I didn’t know they were all coming”. I offered to let you all stay the night for one night with the standard extra charge for extra guests but you said that the others had found other lodging.
I explained my policy to you in person and also it is clearly stated on the arbnb house manual under my listing. Also all supplies were at the house as listed and the Home was just professionally cleaned before your arrival.
In the future I would suggest you communicate more clearly with hosts and do not try to sneak in extra guests without discussing it with the owner of the home. To just throw out a word that is abhorrent to me because you didn’t follow the house rules and tried to take advantage of the situation is just plain wrong.